Couples Choosing Adult Products: Prioritize "Gentle Interactive Types", Communication Is Key
Created on 09.01
I. Prioritize "Gentle Interactive Products": Low Stimulation, High Interaction
These products feature low stimulation, simple operation, and require cooperation between both partners, which aligns with couples’ core needs. They are suitable for couples trying adult products for the first time or those who value experience. There are mainly three categories:
1. Lingerie: No Physical Stimulation, Focus on Atmosphere & Interaction
Choose skin-friendly materials (cotton, modal) and avoid chemical fibers or hard decorations. Select styles that match both partners’ aesthetics and steer clear of overly revealing or vulgar designs. It enhances intimacy through dressing up and role-playing, making it a safe introductory choice.
2. Basic Massagers: Low-Intensity Stimulation, Focus on Collaborative Experience
Opt for models with only "low-frequency vibration (≤30Hz)" or "gentle heat therapy" functions; avoid high-frequency pulse devices or high-intensity vibration products. Materials must comply with standards such as Toy Safety (GB 6675) to ensure safety. Both partners use it collaboratively, adjusting intensity in real time to enhance physical interaction.
3. Intimate Game Props: No Stimulation, Focus on Fun Interaction
Examples include intimate dice (with gentle instructions), blind box task cards (lightweight tasks), and soft feather wands (for touching non-sensitive areas). These props are stress-free and easy to use, ideal for boosting freshness in interaction.
II. Communication Is Core: 3 Steps to Reach Consensus
Skipping communication may easily trigger resistance. Before purchasing, 3 communication steps are needed to clarify needs and boundaries:
1. Step 1: Align on Core Purpose
Openly discuss "why choose adult products" (e.g., to enhance intimacy, break monotony). Use consultative language (e.g., "Shall we look at gentle products together to make our time more fun?") and be receptive to concerns, avoiding one-sided decisions.
2. Step 2: Narrow Down Product Scope
Clarify preferences and aversions: Browse the couple’s section on compliant platforms together to decide on preferred types; avoid allergenic materials or disliked functions; agree on usage scenarios (e.g., anniversaries) and frequency to prevent blind purchases.
3. Step 3: Agree on Boundaries & Feedback Mechanism
Set the "Three No Principles" (e.g., no stimulation beyond tolerance, no coercion, no use when in a bad mood); establish simple feedback signals (e.g., saying "softer" to reduce stimulation, tapping the partner’s arm twice to pause); review the experience afterward and make timely adjustments.
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