1. Condom Sizing
width (circumference ÷ 2):
2. Insertable Toys
- Diameter matters most:
- Beginner: 2.5–3.5cm
- Experienced: 3.5–4.5cm
- Advanced: >4.5cm
- Choose soft silicone for comfort
- Length and curvature should match body anatomy
3. External Stimulators
- Small tip: good for precise clitoral stimulation
- Large tip: better for broad stimulation
- Choose easy-to-hold handles with comfortable weight
4. Notes for Specific Users
- Women: start slim, later consider curvature
- Men: use curved toys for prostate play; anal toys must have a flared base
- Older users: prefer gentle, smaller, easy-to-grip designs
5. How to Choose
- Use a soft tape measure (at full arousal)
- Start with medium size — don’t assume bigger is better
- Keep notes on what feels comfortable
- Choose flexible materials like silicone
6. What to Avoid
- ❌ Bigger isn’t always better — comfort comes first
- ❌ “Standard” sizes aren’t for everyone — consider body differences
- ❌ Width is more important than length
Remember: The right size = safe + comfortable experience. Start with sample sizes and be patient finding your match.
Note: Listen to your body. Stop if there’s discomfort. Use this guide as a reference, not a strict rule.